tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post3007993805795397853..comments2023-04-28T03:22:16.537-05:00Comments on Awful Beautiful Life: I Don't Want to Talk About That*Kc*http://www.blogger.com/profile/15455283653195282817noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-71894177977465973672010-01-15T15:56:19.266-06:002010-01-15T15:56:19.266-06:00KC, I'm sorry you're going through this bu...KC, I'm sorry you're going through this but know that I support you 100%!<br />You're doing what's best for you and the girls!Celinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04916522119500621772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-33945412825927276582010-01-08T12:43:50.297-06:002010-01-08T12:43:50.297-06:00Hey Kayci, You may or may not remember me I am Kel...Hey Kayci, You may or may not remember me I am Kelly I dated the same guy that you did and you came to you grandpa's church in Haskell a few times. Listen I have been exactly where you are at. I don't want to post too many details on here, but I got married alomost as soon as I turned 18 to get out of my parents house and out from under their very strict rules anyway needless to say it did not last and I had horrible family problems because of it. So if you want to email me I can give you my number and we can talk or I can tell you the WHOLE story in email and offer some things that might help. My email addy is kelly. stealthrecovery@yahoo.com. I would love to try to make this easier on you than it was me!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06857776905961661313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-11178343748515139032010-01-08T02:31:59.524-06:002010-01-08T02:31:59.524-06:00Deep breaths and alot of soul searching and if you...Deep breaths and alot of soul searching and if you keep coming up with teh same answer then you have to do what you have to do. A family with married parents isnt always the best in the long run. I have been there and felt like the world was against me but it will get better. Its always harder when your family is also the ones making you feel guilty for your feelings. Keep your chin up.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11812160368033392218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-16196637233505630282010-01-07T14:21:30.511-06:002010-01-07T14:21:30.511-06:00I'm sitting here snowed in and catching up on ...I'm sitting here snowed in and catching up on blogs...<br />I have been following you for a while and so sorry to hear this! I will be praying for you!!!amywelbornhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00276886846515689158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-26379734925091206772010-01-07T11:21:33.393-06:002010-01-07T11:21:33.393-06:00Stay strong. I'll keep you in my thoughts and ...Stay strong. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. xoxoAshleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04961566409695750192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-58949951582762514772010-01-07T09:59:20.628-06:002010-01-07T09:59:20.628-06:00Oh Kaycee, I feel for you because what you are goi...Oh Kaycee, I feel for you because what you are going through must be so hard and I am sure your entire world has turned upside down right now. I would suggest maybe counseling, but if you are past that, then I wish you the best luck in figuring out how you will start your new life, job, and all that comes with it. Marriages do have their ups and downs, and being tight on money and having young kids makes the hard times harder. Try to take a deep breath and continue to do what makes you happy, because like everyone else said, life really is too short to not be happy. I wish you the best of luck, and don't feel bad for doing what you had to do... I would think that an emotionless marriage would be quite a lonely one, especially since you are only in your twenties and have so much more to live in life... that is a lonnnng time to be unhappy :( So, good luck and stay strong!!Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07646332034591536363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-28658743510966301452010-01-07T09:40:52.929-06:002010-01-07T09:40:52.929-06:00OH Kaycee...I am so sorry! I can't imagine wh...OH Kaycee...I am so sorry! I can't imagine what you are going through. I am here to talk if you need to... <3<br /><br />Oh and for the record...it is not always better to stay just for the kids...sometimes it is just better to move on. Good luck and God bless you and your family...Kaycihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304830656554068582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-28215817531217386002010-01-07T01:11:01.893-06:002010-01-07T01:11:01.893-06:00Kaycee, it's been so long since we've talk...Kaycee, it's been so long since we've talked, but dare I say I kept wondering if it had changed? Because I know all too well what happens if it doesn't change. These girls have the best words to say - so I won't say them again, but take it from another person who's still going through the worst (and at times, best) parts of separating from a marriage full of SHOULDS...YOUR heart and your connection to God are all that matter when it comes to how people feel right now. I know it's still so hard to deal with their reactions, but NO ONE has a right to feel for you. I'm so proud that you're listening to your true voice inside. You'll be okay. You'll learn that you're so much stronger than you ever knew. You'll keep going. And like these ladies said, your girls will grow up learning to strive for true happiness and fulfillment rather than expectations. I love ya girl. You'll be in my thoughts.Donna/Elliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10308716954237758711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-86937079594512392452010-01-06T21:17:57.290-06:002010-01-06T21:17:57.290-06:00Kaycee, I am proud of you for being honest to your...Kaycee, I am proud of you for being honest to youreself and your feelings. You will never be happy if you arent. I will keep you all in my prayers!!House of Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16522908189283180709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-50754490206899376272010-01-06T20:52:42.256-06:002010-01-06T20:52:42.256-06:00Oh, Kaycee. I am so very sorry you are having to d...Oh, Kaycee. I am so very sorry you are having to deal with this. You need to do what is best for you and those beautiful babies. Life has ups and downs, and you won't be like this forever. I will tell you that the hubs and I went through a rough time a couple years ago. We recently did the 40 day love dare (there is a book with that name) and it was amazing. It seems like you are past the trying part but I wanted to share that with you. <br />Just know that you don't have to answer to anyone but God. Take care, girl, and you are in my prayers!Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15589302578618525427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-82868060387516389922010-01-06T19:53:03.821-06:002010-01-06T19:53:03.821-06:00Hang in there! Stay strong. My prayers are sent yo...Hang in there! Stay strong. My prayers are sent your way.Meghanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06409498748289982901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-570336191614557482010-01-06T18:20:33.218-06:002010-01-06T18:20:33.218-06:00Hugs and prayers for you KayceeHugs and prayers for you KayceeGretchNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06948318576633957738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-80217015986692616032010-01-06T15:46:32.539-06:002010-01-06T15:46:32.539-06:00I am incredibly sorry for what you are going throu...I am incredibly sorry for what you are going through and I am sorry you feel so many people are against you. I am not and feel that you did the right thing in being honest. I will be praying for you and yoru family and I am so sorry that you are going through thisAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18099878720994777657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-27052738246155548062010-01-06T14:43:23.266-06:002010-01-06T14:43:23.266-06:00Hey girl, I am so sorry to hear you are going thro...Hey girl, I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I know you've been praying about all of it for years, but thought maybe you could try some sort of counseling before you totally end it, to atleast get some professional advice and for you and Chris to both open up about how you feel. I know counseling can be quite expensive, but you should check into some local churches, lots have counselors on staff, or atleast pastors, who could offer some sort of advice for you two. I pray that things get better for you and you find happiness! Just my two cents!Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09453583552489349051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-70879028027500104432010-01-06T14:31:42.141-06:002010-01-06T14:31:42.141-06:00Kaycee! I am so sorry you are going through this. ...Kaycee! I am so sorry you are going through this. I will be praying for you. You need to make decisions off of what is best for you and the children and not worry about what other people think. There are a lot of people "here" for you even if it is only in blog land:). Email me if you want to hear my story...I don't want to post it on here!:) Good luck sweet girl!!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08723527116498542056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-36589514955489621532010-01-06T13:41:43.086-06:002010-01-06T13:41:43.086-06:00KC I was trying to find your email address on here...KC I was trying to find your email address on here because I wanted to send you my love that way but I am just going to write it here.<br /><br />I used to have a blog - it was called Kiss My Cheek... I followed you then. I am also a May 2006 mom. I remember A LONNNNG way back when you had talked about your relationship with your hubby.... <br /><br />17 months ago I left my husband. With have three small children. I got pregnant when I was 21, we got married because I was pregnant and I *thought* I was in love with him. I kept having babies thinking that that would help, that would solve our problems. The bottom line, I was not in love. <br /><br />I love my children with all of my heart and there was absolutely NO way that I could stay in a loveless relationship. My misery was bringing me down, my life was crumbling around me.<br /><br />I am okay now. I am in a loving, wonderful relationship and I NOW know what true love is.<br /><br />You are going to be okay. We are here for you - and if you ever need to talk, or if you need to bounce something off of someone, I was JUST there and would love to chat with you.<br /><br />I am sending you all of my love lady. You ARE going to be okay. You love your babies and you are going to be okay. xoAmshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18043341181825149381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-24749113418881635382010-01-06T13:24:47.139-06:002010-01-06T13:24:47.139-06:00Kaycee, Please know that I am always here for you....Kaycee, Please know that I am always here for you...I have known for you so long (we may not be close) but I hurt for you and hate that you are having to go through this. I pray that things work out and that God presents an opportunity for you in the workfield.<br /><br />Blessings your way!<br />CoriCorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09029664393729875737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-64493762080089649242010-01-06T13:20:56.744-06:002010-01-06T13:20:56.744-06:00Praying for you, Chris, and the girls!Praying for you, Chris, and the girls!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-6096925366852195372010-01-06T13:08:33.858-06:002010-01-06T13:08:33.858-06:00I love you girl! If you need help with those babie...I love you girl! If you need help with those babies, you know I'm right down the road! Let me know ANYTIME!!Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16630829638636583252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-71711565004903914922010-01-06T13:01:02.494-06:002010-01-06T13:01:02.494-06:00Hey KC, please don't let your family talk you...Hey KC, please don't let your family talk you into staying in a loveless marriage just because it would make THEM happy. My parents were never happy together and we knew it as kids. We always wished they would get divorced but they stayed together for us. Life is too short to spend time trying to live your life for others.<br /><br />Good luck to you and you are a brave woman to find your happiness in life.LauraChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14322568136833382134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-23534414138460138052010-01-06T12:57:08.946-06:002010-01-06T12:57:08.946-06:00I am sorry that you are going through any of this....I am sorry that you are going through any of this. I don't wish that upon anyone. Don't listen to what other people say, just listen to your heart and do what is best for you. You know what is best for your girls and you have to be happy, for them to be happy. <br />I am praying for you and I know we are states away, but if there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to ask!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06307378854027707316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-35064452706829062172010-01-06T12:46:17.575-06:002010-01-06T12:46:17.575-06:00My heart is with you.
You have to do what you have...My heart is with you.<br />You have to do what you have to do.<br />Your family and friends will get over it, but if you don't make the right decisions, you won't get over it.<br />You are so lucky to have the MOST beautiful girls in the world and they will help you get through this. You are strong mama.Jaimiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16214250715175984161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-15468875496595236562010-01-06T12:26:38.729-06:002010-01-06T12:26:38.729-06:00Kaycee, sometimes the best decisions and the right...Kaycee, sometimes the best decisions and the right decisions are the hardest decisions. And no one knows exactly what you're going through except you, so as tough as it is, don't let anyone "against" you get you down. The above commentor is right...you have your own business! That's definitely something to talk about while you're looking for a job. Start the daycare search now...you'll feel it when you've found the right one but it may take some time.Deannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10707226638096343977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-54237266222055201022010-01-06T12:10:20.794-06:002010-01-06T12:10:20.794-06:00I am so sorry that you are having to go through th...I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I just wanted to let you know that I will be praying for you and if you need anything or just to talk I am here just can email me anytime.Brandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05208074015456989609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8935185711976900933.post-19995541218885793672010-01-06T11:59:06.824-06:002010-01-06T11:59:06.824-06:00Praying for you! (I know there's nothing else ...Praying for you! (I know there's nothing else I can say or do that will help more.)Londonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08923522420039095716noreply@blogger.com